Episode 270

Ep270: Why Are We So Bad at Healthy Boundaries?

Mormonish is joined once again by Kendel Christensen for a part two of his exploration of Mormons, post Mormons, and the difficulty of recognizing, setting, and enforcing healthy boundaries.

This is an important topic because healthy boundaries are at the root of relationships and can determine success, satisfaction, dissatisfaction, or failure of relationships. Being raised in the LDS church often did not allow us to set, respect, or even understand healthy boundaries or their importance.


Kendel brings a wealth of sources, resources, and knowledge to this topic in this very important part two of our discussion on healthy boundaries.


I've linked part one in the show notes if you missed it.


Part 1: https://youtu.be/5iNJ1LgHK9U



Kendel's Book "Life Simplified: Handy Lifehacks for Ordinary People" https://a.co/d/7QhOxA4


Kendel's Website: www.LearnedEmpowerment.com


Subscribe to Kendel's channel: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDnagDIp2q6AohqxuklvF1g?sub_confirmation=1


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